Getting your ex-boyfriend back is not an impossible task. It will
just require considerable effort if your relationship was real while it
lasted.
A modest figure of 60% of people in relationships have experienced
break up at some time. Below are list of things you can do to get him
back.
1. Is it worth it:
You need to really be sure if your ex is worth going back to. If he
has serious issues like Cheating or assault, kindly save yourself from
unnecessary future pain and invest your precious energy in to other
productive activities. That means it is pointless following the points
in this article. If he is worth it, you may then proceed.
2. How did the break up come about:
The first step to treating an illness is accurate diagnosis. You
need to know what caused the problem. Was it from your end or it was his
fault? Many a time, we lay the entire blame for the failure of a thing
on our partner simply because we are the alternative. Even if he was at
fault, you need to see the role you may have played in it.
3. Work on yourself:
Rather than mope about, improve your character. Work on your
attitude and let go of bad habits that you may have. Also, take out time
to change your looks. Obviously, this is one way of attracting his
attention since men are creatures of sight. Make a new hairdo, get
yourself new outfits and engage in exercise if need be. Those two are
absolutely important. While your looks may attract him, your new
character will keep him with you.
4. What kind of man is he:
You stand a brighter chance of having him back since you know him.
And the good news is, guys are basically single celled. I mean we are
easy to understand and predict once you know us. How does your ex like
you to relate with him? You should know your way. How does he like to
have issues settled?
5. Mutual friends can come in handy:
It is will help if you let close mutual friends that you both share
know about your intentions. However, you need to be choosy about who
you approach. Not every friend that smiles with you roots for your
relationship with him. Intimate them of your plans and get their advise
on how to go about it. They are your invaluable asset here.
6. Agree with him:
Agreeing with him does not necessarily mean that he is totally
right and you are wrong. Instead, it means you choose to see things from
his perspective and acknowledge that his opinion is valid. Wherever
there is a misunderstanding, you need to find the understanding that I
missing. Be humble in your approach and gentle with your choice of
words.
7. Apologize for your fault:
Since we already established that both parties have their share in
the blame, apologize for your faults. If your ex is thoughtful, he will
naturally feel obligated to own up to his wrongs. However, you need to
take some time before you implement this stage. Rome was not built in a
day. Don’t try to rush the process.
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