I met my boyfriend late November 2016. He told me about his past but I was not that comfortable about his last ex-girlfriend.
Everything
between I and my boyfriend went smoothly, he was really there for me. I
found my happiness in him, so I introduced him to my family and he did
the same.
Both families were in
support, I don't why my spirit keeps talking about my boyfriend’s ex.
Some weeks back, a friend of my BF asked me what I would do if I heard
that my boyfriend impregnated another girl.
I
said I will be mad and leave the relationship. So she opened this bad
news to me that my boyfriend’s ex is pregnant for him, but he’s scared
to tell me because he might lose me.
His
family was not aware of the pregnancy because he broke up with this
girl September 2016, and the girl brought pregnancy to him November
2016. So he was confused and it was after then he met me.
According
to what his friend told me, he [my BF] made an agreement with the
girl’s family that he will take the responsibility for the pregnancy and
the baby but he can't marry her because he has his wife, and he never
told his parents or siblings about it.
Bukky now his family is aware and everyone is begging me including him. Please what can I do?
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Dear reader,
I
think all that matters in this situation is your willingness to go on
with the relationship – and in my opinion, if you love him, you should.
Apparently,
this is what happened before you both met each other, and he has
already announced you as the person he wants to be with. This is just a
case of the past catching up with him.
The only
thing here is that he is going to have another kid outside your
potential marriage. Are you the kind if woman who can deal with this, or
are you not cut out for this kind of thing?
If
you don’t mind the fact that he has a child with someone else, then you
shouldn’t be scared of going on with the relationship. If not, please
move on and detach yourself from it if you think it would rob you of
your happiness.
In my opinion, dear reader, I
think you should continue with the relationship so far you can make him
promise you that it is just the baby. All emotional ties with the baby
mama needs to be cut off.
If he can assure you of that, I think you should stay with him.
I hope you find true happiness and long-term satisfaction with this decision.BY: BUKKY
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